Here is How to Heal your Love Life

Here is How to Heal your Love Life

I know you are exhausted with your inner life at times. It seems to demand an inexorable amount of energy. I totally get this. I go through this too. Some days it takes sheer will to stay devoted to your path. Each day brings a myriad of opportunities to participate in low vibe outbursts (check), satisfying but costly eye rolls (check), or simply the feeling that bed is the only safe place to be (check). Check.

If you are in an active love relationship with a mate of any kind right now, godspeed. I could just end this post right there. I sincerely wish you (and me) very well. This is especially the case if you and said mate have not already trolled the depths of human relational misery and worked out those kinks in a real and meaningful manner by this point. We’ve incarnated and fallen in love at a very potent time on the planet.

Even IF you have taken a flashlight to those shadows together you may be getting surprised right now with what is returning for another go-round, another even deeper review and clarification. It’s almost unbelievable to me how much human living is spent unwinding karmic patterns in the presence of a beloved ‘other’. Which brings me to my point.

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If you have not already arrived to the fundamental understanding that your mate IS you on some level. I recommend you get that nailed down now. Once you do this things will get a whole lot smoother and make a lot more sense to you. NOTE: For this post, I am not addressing those of you in highly dysfunctional situations where someone or both of you are acting out in dangerous or criminal ways (although the same truths apply with deeper teaching needed). I am addressing the most common relationship challenges.

Here it is: When you agreed to come to the earth this time, by soul contract or blueprint you brought with you that which was not quite resolved (evolved) from other existences. You also brought attributes and accomplishments you would need here in ole earth school which is often my sweet relief. You are after all, ascending/evolving/growing through this human kingdom. It is what we do here otherwise we do not come.

You also need to grasp the Law of One. Right now. Simply put, there is nothing that is not you. Or everything is you. Same difference. Your sovereignty this life time hinges on your adoption of this construct and your ability to ACT on it. Every day. As often during the day as you can. No, not just in yoga class, at the meditation center or during a reiki session. All the time. At work, at PTA, the grocery store and on the freeway. It will take practice.

A word on becoming sovereign. I can’t stress enough how this very word is triggering you right this moment. It is laden with magnetizing vibratory encodement– as all form (and words are manifest form) is, to set your consciousness on a path towards it. Reread what I wrote there. Sovereignty IS a condition for passing through a 3rd dimensional living experience into a unity consciousness manifest fourth density/fifth dimensional life experience while in the body your soul is wearing right at the moment.

All this said, you attracted (magnetized) and are holding your mate in your holographic template as an aspect of yourself you are working on now. You did this by usually unconscious choice, but choice none-the-less. Claim your responsibility for doing so as quickly as possible. Next time you will be even more conscious of your mate choice but guess what, you will still be surprised at the shadow aspects that will come flying up at you with that one too. This is the third dimensional relationship life.

When you do as I have suggested above something truly miraculous happens. NO not every one lives happily ever after with their mate. That’s pretty much a pile of programming crap. What WILL happen is that you become exquisitely responsible for your choices in that relationship. THIS is the miracle. You become devoted to yourself, your embodied soul-self, in new ways: communicating with as much love, forgiveness and compassion you can muster. Yes, on some days that’s not much. I know. But the more you practice, I promise, the better it gets.

You will naturally become less interested in what they did TO you or what they said TO you or what was not done etc. When you see your mate as yourself you become increasingly devoted to self love and its full expression. You begin to get curious about what aspects of yourself are being mirrored to you for healing. You will start acting differently toward said mate. When you do so, you are healing the condition of yourself that you brought to this lifetime and needed to heal/recover.

What I’ve noticed personally and have seen in friends and clients over the last couple years is that once you hop off that frequency or ‘song sheet’ that you were on before– arguments, frustration– the usual suspects of suffering– the ‘other’ starts appearing differently to you. You will ask yourself if something has changed in them. No, something has changed in YOU.

I’ve seen couples resolve and grow closer in this process and I’ve seen people split in this process. Both are beautiful choices as they are a perfect reflection of who you came to be and what life on earth is all about today at this time in the human condition. What I can see in my own experience is that new intimacy can grow. I can also see that when the soul contract with the mate is complete, they move out of our lives. We move them out naturally and with tons less drama. Unless of course, you are still exploring drama as a human motif. If that’s the case, you’ll have plenty of it.

I hope this post has strung a few constructs together that can be practically meaningful for you today. I write this as I do everything with my love. – Amber

Please take a moment to set up a session with me should any of this need support. We are all in varying places in our consciousness growth and spiritual practice.  I am here as a professional and experienced mirror for you.

 

 

 

My Story & Work as a ‘Service-to-Others’ Soul

My Story & Work as a ‘Service-to-Others’ Soul

I was a highly sensitive and aware child. I intuitively understood that humans experienced an exquisite combination of joy and pain during their lives. It was evident to me from very early in life that both in my own family and those around me, life was often overwhelming, painful and confusing. Growing up on my grandparent’s farm in a rural Virginia community, I had the opportunity to spend a lot of time alone in nature. It was here, in particular, that I awakened to my own inner spiritual life often having conversations with what I knew as God. I felt I could feel God’s touch in the sunlight and wind. I could hear God’s voice in the leaves as they moved in the trees. In fact I grew up in the Christian tradition and sang plenty of old time gospel hymns in the church choir with my mother.

In early adulthood I had the great fortune of being introduced to the works of Edgar Cayce and his Association for Enrichment and Enlightenment (ARE), Dr. Ernest Holmes’ The Science of Mind and a number of other Religious Science teachers. More personally, I began receiving healing work from two different spiritual teachers, one from the Barbara Brennan School of Healing and another whose work in astrology went far beyond the constructs of astrology, which is often the case for spiritual healers and teachers. Non-traditional powerful healers are often found behind a wide variety of certifications. Both of these two providers were a part of my life for over 20 years.

In the last few years I emerged as an international consciousness and spirituality teacher. My clients work with me to grow and sustain a deeper and richer relationship within themselves and to establish an increased sense of wellbeing in their lives inclusive of relationships and careers. My work includes spiritual tools across many paths and narratives reflecting traditional healing spiritual arts, quantum mechanics, sacred geometry and other associated consciousness themes and tools.

Related to my teaching and presentation work within the field of leadership & organizational wellbeing for US companies, I published Working ‘Well & Feeling Good: Mindfulness Affirmations for your Work Life’ (Master Key Press) in 2018.

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My work is perfect for you if…

1. You feel called to be more in charge of your own life choices and who you want to be this lifetime
2. You are ready to access your inner wisdom and release family and external influences that no longer fit you
3. You are ready to add more spiritual tools to your growing toolbox for self-care
4. You want to add on to or go beyond the use of traditional counseling work by adding spiritual tools and perspectives
5. You want to know more about who you are, why you incarnated this lifetime and experience activations to help you harness spirituality and consciousness to manifest more of the life you want to have

As a spiritual intuitive, I innately know what hurts human beings and I know what heals and sustains them. I arrived to the planet very naturally aware and awakened to the human condition. Some of you who will read this will be very similar to me in this regard. This means that, as an empath and highly sensitive person, when requested, I can easily get sensory information about you and your life. I intimately ‘read’ your energy in such a way as to tune into who you are and what influences your life at this time.
I am not alone in this work. In fact, many of us are here today to offer our way of serving humanity in this very fashion. We are a small and specific community of healing arts professionals and our work is growing by leaps and bounds given humanity’s current intensely evolving condition. Humans are being called from within to develop methods for self-inquiry and self-healing in ways not seen on this planet in thousands of years.
You are now being asked to take full responsibility for your wellbeing this lifetime. In fact, you were born with this powerful and life altering capability. You just need someone to show you how. I am here to assist you in this process.
I am also a mental health expert. I have a Masters of Education (M.Ed.) in Health and Human Development & Community Counseling and spent the first 25 years of my professional life in the counseling and wellbeing industry, both as a licensed psychotherapist and as a healthcare management professional in a variety of small and large settings across the United States. While I thrived in my career, I knew the time would come when my intuitive skills and healing arts mission would ask more of me. This is that time.
For the last few years I have been helping individuals across the world understand more about who they are and their life purpose at this incredible time in human history. Within my healing arts community, inclusive of counselors, reiki masters, yoga teachers, healing touch providers, psychics, consciousness teachers, hypnotherapy practitioners, past life regression teachers and many more, we know that increasing number of people are ‘waking up’ to an inner voice and inner life that is asking them to heal from within, be of service and connect with others in meaningful, heart-based ways. We call this ‘Unity Consciousness’. It is exactly for this very time on the planet that I am here. I am in service, as a ‘service-to-others’ soul to support human beings to achieve a level of peace, compassion and love in their lives that has been missing for modern humans.

Here is what I know about you. You are feeling called to develop a rich inner life from which to heal, nurture and sustain yourself from day to day. From within this private sanctuary you will begin to engage yourself at the start of each day, quietly drop in throughout the day and then gratefully return at day’s end. How do I know this? I have known since childhood that my life would be dedicated to loving and supporting human beings in very personal ways. In fact, it was one of my spiritual teachers who told me that the time would come for me to show others how to create this sacred space for themselves.

Now, after many years of professional accomplishment in psychological health, human wellbeing and spirituality practices, I show you how to develop accelerated personal wellbeing using your own innate spiritual life. This work will powerfully change your life forever.

During our work together we will harness ancient and modern spiritual health tools inclusive of guided imagery, mindfulness meditation, affirmations, energy healing, crystals, herbs, essential oils and others to create a daily perspective for you increasing your sense of thriving regardless of the external conditions in your life. After our work together, and as you practice, you will begin to respond to life in ways that create positive change and new foundations for you, your work and those you love. What are you waiting for? Let’s begin.

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TESTIMONIALS (Love Notes)

What are people saying about my work:

“I feel that I am healing and releasing a lot of shame and guilt that I have held onto about being who I am just from seeing how okay you make it to be the way we are.”- Nikki

“I came to Amber seeking clarity for current obstacles in my life. She helped me to bring information to the forefront of my head that I didn’t even know I knew as well as insight into specific aspects of my life that I was having trouble narrowing in on.”- Ann

“Based on my own wonderful experiences of consults with Amber, I booked a session for my 24-yr old daughter. It was her first ever experience of a psychic/spiritual session and she was blown away at the information shared and importantly, the direction given.”- Mark

“You are divinely gorgeous! Thank you for your kind words. We are kindred spirits on this wonderful big adventure called life! I love the unique, authentic and soulful work you offer!!! Many blessings to you sister, you are shining bright!”- Michelle

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1. Individual Suburban Light Consultations (60minutes/30minutes)

You are feeling called to develop a rich inner life from which to heal, nurture and sustain yourself from day to day.
I show you how to develop accelerated personal wellbeing using your own innate spiritual life at a beginning, intermediate or advanced level. During our work together we will harness ancient and modern spiritual health tools inclusive of guided imagery, mindfulness meditation, affirmations, energy healing, crystals, herbs, essential oils and others to create a daily perspective for you increasing your sense of thriving regardless of the external conditions in your life.
After our work together, and as you practice, you will begin to respond to life in ways that create positive change and new foundations for you, your work and those you love.

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2. Individual Suburban Light for the Work Life Consultation (60minutes/30minutes)

Your work life is important to you. It is a HUGE part of your life and who you came to be in this lifetime. No matter where you are in your working life you are ready to develop work life wellbeing skills to accelerate your sense of purpose, service, work performance and overall enjoyment. I show you how to begin or go further to cultivate a work life and career that fulfills your sense of life purpose and meaning using fundamental, intermediate or advanced spirituality based concepts and tools.

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3.Individual Suburban Light Create Your Daily Practice Consultation (60minutes/30minutes)

You have some or a lot of awareness and experience with spirituality practices. There are some that fit you better than others. At this point, you are looking for a ‘recipe’ of sorts, a daily practice that suits you perfectly. This session is for you! During this work we will put together a daily practice that you will fall in love with the more you engage it and make it your own. I will help you identify the spiritual approach and elements that ignite your sense of wellbeing each day. I will take your experience, background, time limitations and anything else that comes up in the session into account in order to build a practice that you can do for years to come.

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4. Individual Suburban Light for Quantum Activation (Advanced Work)(60minutes/30minutes)

If you are reading this offering and it has any resonance for you, this is your session. You are part of a a small but significant portion of human beings, often referred to as ‘awakened starseeds’ who are now connecting to aspects of themselves across the living akash and kahonic. This community is are aware that ‘all is now’, are understanding constructs such as the Flower of Life, Merkabah, Ark of the Covenant, Atlantis, Lemuria and many other narratives. This collective identifies with the terms ‘5D ascension’, ‘new earth’, ‘the event horizon’ and is increasingly interested in galactic motifs. In this work with me, we engage your energy body template and work with your own guidance system blueprint around any aspect that is important to you for your growth. How do we do this? As an advanced consciousness embodied soul and channel, I employ a wide variety of tools inclusive of energy activations, quantum mechanical light, color and sound motifs, sacred geometry, light language, crystal being wisdom, Angelics & Ascended masters, and galactic journeys. Indeed, you intuitively know that you came this lifetime for this level of work and life mission.

Always with my love, Amber

Today my session fees are 165.00/hour 85.00/half hour.You may reach me here on my Contact Page, on Facebook, via Instagram, or please call me at 571-969-6904 or email me directly at suburbanlightworker@gmail.com

Boom.What Just Happened to Me?

Boom.What Just Happened to Me?

As I write this I clearly feel you asking “What just happened to me?” In this last week some of you stumbled and fumbled around in a fog. I literally fell off two tiny steps in my livingroom bruising my knuckles. Today as I brought in grocery bags, I fell backward slipping awkwardly down the two steps outside my door. (Ahem. Someone needs to ground herself.) Some of you made it until about 3 o’clock in the afternoon this week and said “that’s it, I’m laying down.” That happened to me Tuesday. More of you had HUGE emotional disruptions at home or at work dredging up things you thought you already solved or let go. Thankfully I managed not to experience that one. This time. I witnessed at least one person have a blow out way out of character for him. I totally sympathized.

What just happened is what we consciousness teachers would call a push in information from inside yourself that creates a leap in your personal awareness. We get these ‘pushes’ from the energetics of the planet and cosmos in which we reside. After all, we are made up of mostly water, as is beloved Earth. So when we have an event as we just did with the recent Solar Eclipse, this is what always happens. You did not realize that and now you are starting to scratch your head and ponder the whole situation. Eclipses are the perfect impetus to encourage us to shed that which no longer serves us. And it rattles up content that shakes us literally to our very core being. Pay attention to that content. It asks to be healed. And if it is coming up after you thought you had finished it, go towards it again as you are healing a deeper component of it that remains with you.

You were taught upon planetary arrival to forget you knew that you are inextricably an embodied soul. You were advised by others holding these erroneous beliefs, that you had dominion over the earth and absolutely no relationship to the universes or the natural laws by which everything is governed. And now, your own personal experience is making you question ALL of that.  Welcome to the growing community of humans who are now awakening to themselves thanks in no small part to these types of events. We are starting to demand that our human lives be delightful versus heavy, sad, hard and painful. Hurray. It is high time, no?

Here are some things that will assist you to steady yourself as you are, as we all are, headed into a brilliant year and subsequent decades of expressing in new ways relative to life purpose, spirituality, consciousness and beyond that will challenge everything you ever came to believe about yourself and the World:

  1. If you have not already, get a consciousness-based practice of any kind in your life. Options abound. Be dedicated to it daily. Do not let others dictate what that is for you.
  2. Allow food to serve your life. Follow your own guidance as to what will support and nurture you.
  3. Create daily habits, a hygiene approach along side brushing your teeth, that sets your intention for well-being each day.The elements will change along with your inner growth.
  4. Add more beauty and joy into your daily life. You were taught these are extravagances and superfluous. They are essentials for self love and love of life.
  5. Seek a positive community of others who are also growing. You can have differing practices and viewpoints but being in a collective balances the isolation that often accompanies such deep and powerful healing and growing.

Most of all beloveds, trust yourself. I AM so We ARE. I am so grateful you came to the planet at this very special time. As a lovely new friend reminded me “The light in me honors the light in you.” Om Shanti.

Note: please know that my work is available to you in consultation phone/skype. See the tab at the top of the page labeled ‘Workshops for One’. You will also find me on Face Book at Amber Chamberlain, Consciousness Teacher and on Twitter @suburbanlight and on Pinterest at The Suburban Lightworker.

 

 

 

The Divine Service of Pain

The Divine Service of Pain

Here is a basic tenet about living a three dimensional human life.  We have human bodies. They get hurt and we suffer. Diseases also cause us tremendous pain. And we get hurt at both the accidental and deliberate hands and psychological predation of others and ourselves. In our current Agreement this is part of the programming we accepted to be on this planet. Therefore we suffer mightily. Given the predominance of pain, allow me to introduce its divine service to you.

To explore the opportunity pain brings you,  consider the emotional pain you now experience. Because this by far is your most challenging and unrelenting issue as it is for the entire human species. You are suffering just as I once did on a daily basis. Suffering is inevitable given what our collective believes and does in response to those beliefs. It is our heritage for thousands of years now. The good news is all of this is changing. The fact you are reading this item is just one affirmation for this fact. Unlike prior generations, we are healing faster and more effectively from the steady stream of unending emotional pain than at any other time on Earth. Beloveds, as a collective we are releasing our Agreement to hold the beliefs required to produce the resultant expression of suffering.

In the late 90’s I had a prophetic boyfriend who told me, among many things that eventually came to pass, that I was “always walking through a field of of wild flowers” implying that I only saw the beauty in life and never allowed myself to look at the darker parts. He was right. And many of you who are very intuitive and empathic types will understand what he was telling me. As a highly conscious person, just as you are or are becoming,  I thought my job was to remain positive, keep my eyes turned towards the Light, and share this with others. I was in immense emotional pain. In fact, I was becoming exhausted by the accumulation of pain, mine and other’s, but unwilling to acknowledge it because to do so would change my  life in ways for which I was not consciously ready.

I am here to tell you many years later that acknowledging and then healing emotional pain is a divinely provided and supported path to conscious awareness and spiritual growth. In this growth you will find the peace, comfort and stability of self that is your Original Birthright. And it is a common path of choice for humans inclusive of physical pain which has a monstrous but certain pathway that can take you to a new level of human existence as you pass through it. When you are ready, often in the eleventh hour, you will relent, you will collapse, and then you will allow yourself to recover. You will take the trip the mythical Persephone takes into the abysmal depths seemingly below and behind all that is familiar and preferred.

The journey will challenge everything you thought you knew about yourself and others. Then you will return to the true Spring of your life revived and hopeful. You will blossom naturally in ways you did not imagine possible while you were so busy being consumed by managing and responding to pain. I know this because I am now in this blooming phase of life. It was not easy to get here. Some of it was, and sometimes still is, downright ugly. All’s not lost in the process either. While it was going on I had love, friends, work and enjoyment in my life. Yes, at times I did not have love, did not have friends and did not work and did not enjoy my life. Looking back it was very much an endurance dance across years.

One way to conceive of pain as a path to healing and powerful consciousness growth is to imagine that you are ‘threading the eye of the needle’ which means to go straight for it and headlong into the center of it such that you arrive cleared of it on the other side. Of course, you will eddy out to the edges of it from time to time. It is only human to lighten up a bit and give yourself plenty of breaks.

Be generous with yourself most of all. Get any and all healthful support available to you while you endeavor to heal. Make use of nature, the healing arts, good food, laughter, music and quality care as needed. You have within you everything needed for releasing and relieving that which causes you so much pain and suffering. You came to our gorgeous Earth will all of this capability written into everyone of your over 30 trillion cells. Now it is about remembering and practicing.

Your affirmation: Please read it through once. Then read it aloud once. And then read it very slowly aloud to yourself even if it seems you lose the meaning of the words you are saying. There is power in this method.

‘I have everything I need inside of me in order to release and heal all pain and suffering. I choose now to activate those healing agents with deep gratitude for my true and divinely guided self.’

I am sending you my Love. Thank you for being on the planet at this incredible time. Om shanti. Amber